Tell…Don’t ASK!!!!!
A common mistake new parents make with their children is “asking” their child to do something vs “telling” their child to do something. You see, the problem lies with the fact that regardless of how the child answers the question, you still want them to complete the task.
Mark’s Monday Milestone: Tell…Don’t ASK! As a result of positive commands, you will be setting expectations appropriately and not ending up in a battle of ”No” vs ”because I said so”
Helpful Tips: Tell them what to do…vs what not to do.
For example,,,Walk,,,vs Stop Running,,,,Whisper,,vs Stop talking
Also, use the tone of your voice to encourage immediate results. Your first command might be in your speaking voice (warning),,next command (should be louder and intent). Ensure you have your childs attention first before talking and avoid yelling from another room in the house.
Enjoy!